René de Baaij MCM

Leadership, Management and Governance

Does this sound familiar?

I make the decisions, but I am not sure they are really landing. People nod in agreement, and then something different happens from what was agreed.

I sense that more is at play in my executive team than what is being said. Meetings run smoothly. The real conversations are happening elsewhere, or not at all.

I want to move forward — with AI, with the transformation, with the direction. But I find myself standing alone. The organisation is not following, and I cannot quite identify where it is getting stuck.

In the boardroom, direction is given — not only through decisions, but through what is allowed to become visible and what remains out of sight. That is where the tone is set: how people speak about risk, people, performance, mistakes and responsibility. And that is where it is determined whether complexity is truly carried, or pushed away into procedures, project groups and deferred conversations. Many executive teams have ample intelligence and experience, yet noise still arises: the tendency to harmonise too quickly, or conversely to harden. Much is said, but what matters most remains implicit.

I work in that space. Not with reports and recommendations, but by being present where decisions are made and tension arises. I name what is being avoided, make it discussable without turning it into therapy, and translate it into language, rhythm and agreements that fit mature governance. That may mean: one conversation that finally takes place. One decision that finally holds. One clear agreement on mandate and ownership that has been left implicit for too long. The first step is rarely large, but it is always precise.

Psychodynamic

I look beyond behaviour in the meeting room to what is steering from beneath: loyalties, rivalry, fear of losing, unspoken contracts. That undercurrent determines what becomes of decisions.

Systemic

I always take position, mandate and the field of forces into account. Leadership behaviour is never purely personal; it is always also a product of structure, history and the expectations of the system.

Human-AI

I help boards and executive teams make AI a governance matter. Who decides, who is accountable when things go wrong, and which values we protect when systems begin to steer — these are not technical questions. They are leadership questions.

Boardroom consultancy

Ongoing or project-based guidance of boards and executive teams on strategic questions, decision-making and governance.

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Executive Counseling

Individual guidance of the board member or director at the intersection of role, person and organisational dynamics.

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Large Group Interventions

For the moment when the whole needs to come together: working conferences and interventions in which the system as a whole is present and makes choices.

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