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I write regularly about leadership, organisation and the impact of AI on people and work. No newsletter, no noise, only pieces that are about something.
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Convert my website to Grav: four words, and then something remarkable
It began with a single sentence and became a full migration from WordPress to Grav. A short, honest account of building a website with Claude, and what it taught me about people and AI. BlogHuman-AI #AI#Human-AI#Grav -
AI Leadership: what management taught you, and why it now stands in the way
Today, 1 July, a new episode of the KNVI podcast series has appeared: 'Leadership and AI'. A genuine recommendation for anyone in a management or expert role who works with AI and wants to understand what it asks of personal leadership. AI LeiderschapBlogLeiderschap #Human-AI#Leiderschap -
Agency Without Illusions 12/12
You do not have to win. You do not have to heal anyone. You do not have to rescue anyone. Above all, you do not have to lose yourself. The twelfth and final instalment in a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Leadership#Narcism#Toxic -
Escalate Formally When Boundaries Are Structurally Violated 11/12
You notice something dangerous: that you are starting to normalise the abnormal. Formal escalation sounds heavy, but sometimes it is the only adult move. Part eleven of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Leadership#Narcism#Toxic -
Build Exit Dignity 10/12
Dominance works best on people who feel trapped. Exit dignity takes the sting out of that feeling, even if you go nowhere today. Part ten of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Leadership#Narcism#Toxic -
Choose Your Battles 9/12
he rule of the strongest does not only feed on your silence, but on your exhaustion too. Choosing is not weakness, it is strategy. Part nine of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Leadership#Narcism#Toxic -
Towards an AI Compass on One Page
No technical blueprint, no legal document, no marketing story, but a clear set of choices. The close of a series on implementing AI without losing yourself. Blog -
Change the Playing Field with System Interventions 8/12
In a room without fixed agreements, a strong personality can shape reality. In a room with rhythm and record-keeping, that same personality suddenly has to run on rails. Part eight of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
Governance and Learning Capacity First, Then Scale
It is not technology but capacity and governance that are the real bottleneck for AI. Part four of a series on implementing AI without losing yourself. Blog -
Build an Allyship Map 7/12
The system would prefer people who each think they are the only one. Shame does the rest. Shame creates silence. Silence becomes agreement. Part seven of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
Whoever Decides What Is Visible Decides the Election
What if the prevailing opinion in an election does not reflect the truth, but the result of finely tuned algorithms? On technology, visibility and democratic integrity. Blog -
Purpose, Boundary, Proof Loop in AI
The model is probably right is a quiet shift of responsibility. On how to build in purpose, boundary and a proof loop before speed overtakes wisdom. Blog -
The Poison of Unprocessed Anger Seeps Into the System
We cooperate loyally, contribute when asked, preach the new gospel. But processing takes longer than change. And somewhere along the way, it becomes the poison in our own working existence. BlogLeiderschap -
Silence Is Not the Absence of Leadership. It Is a Form of It
Silence exposes patterns. Who speaks, who stays in the background, where do gaps in the conversation fall? On silence as a full participant in every conversation that matters. Blog -
We Call It Efficiency. Do We Mean Distance?
The system gives the illusion of objectivity and makes difficult conversations feel safer by reducing the personal charge. But that charge can be exactly what makes interaction meaningful. Blog -
Rules Are Not a Blockade. They Are the Recovery of Agency
Technology that once promised to move us forward now raises questions about who is still at the wheel. On why rules are not a blockade, but the recovery of agency. Blog -
An Algorithm Never Makes the Decision
A job you never see, a loan denied on grounds nobody can explain. The effects of algorithms are subtle but far-reaching, and they shift our choices without us noticing. Blog -
What We Should Do, Not What We Can Do
Efficiency is not the same as wisdom. Which decisions do we, as a society, want to keep in human hands, precisely because they are too important to leave to machines? Blog #Leadership -
Setting Boundaries with Procedural Language 6/12
Boundaries are rarely the problem. The language you use to set them often is. Part six of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules and makes people feel small. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
AI Changes Power, Roles and the Undercurrent
It is not only systems that get redesigned when you introduce AI. Relationships do too. Part three of a series on implementing AI without losing yourself. AI LeiderschapBlog -
Do Not Start with AI, Start with Purpose
The easiest way for an organisation to lose itself is to introduce AI without clarity on what it may and may not be used for. Part two of a series on implementing AI without losing yourself. Blog #Leadership -
Move from One-on-One to Plural 5/12
It feels more intimate, as if you are being trusted. As if you are special. But whoever speaks alone can also be isolated alone. Part five of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leiderschap Serie #Dominant#Narcisme#Toxisch -
Why AI Only Works Once You Take Yourself Seriously First
Most organisations start with the question of what an AI tool can do for them. That feels sensible. It is often a flight forward, away from three conversations that are more uncomfortable than an implementation plan. The first instalment in a series on implementing AI without losing yourself. Blog #Leadership -
Record It as If You Will Need Proof Later 4/12
In healthy organisations, memory is something soft. In unhealthy ones, it becomes a battleground. Part four of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules and makes people feel small. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
AI Does Not Change People into a Different Species
The screen lights up before the meeting room fills. Someone sighs with relief, someone else frowns. In those microreactions lies the whole field exposed: AI as promise, as threat, as mirror. Blog -
Governance as Civilisation 3/12
You believe that if you just explain it well enough, the penny will drop. But where power personalises, status rarely loses to logic. Part three of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
Name the Pattern, Not the Person 2/12
You're unreliable. You manipulate. It sounds like relief to finally say it. But right at that moment, the conversation shifts from what is happening to who you are. Part two of a series on dealing with a leader who bends rules. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic -
When Dominance Takes the Lead 1/12
An agreement that turns out different in practice. A decision rewritten in a conversation you weren't part of. That is how it starts, almost invisibly. The first instalment in a series about dealing with a leader who bends rules and makes people feel small. BlogDominant Leadership Series #Dominance#Narcism#Toxic
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